• Lissette Fernandez

Mommy’s Day Out: When you just need to demand some “ME” time

[et_pb_section fb_built=”1″ _builder_version=”3.0.47″][et_pb_row custom_padding=”0|0px|6px|0px|false|false” _builder_version=”3.0.48″ background_size=”initial” background_position=”top_left” background_repeat=”repeat”][et_pb_column type=”4_4″ _builder_version=”3.0.47″][et_pb_text _builder_version=”3.21.1″ background_size=”initial” background_position=”top_left” background_repeat=”repeat”]I had a little me time this afternoon, which was really nice.  You see, I cycle for fun and exercise.  Before having Silly Baby, my husband and I would go out 3-4 times a week.  It’s a little more difficult now because being able to go out entails either getting a babysitter so we can both go out, or one of us has to stay with the baby.  9 times out of 10, when I’ve finally settled on when I’m going to go for a ride, I either can’t wake up early enough to meet my group or I’m exhausted for the evening rides.  Today I said to hell with it!  Dad, you’re watching the kid and I’m going out!  I am so glad I did.

I love riding with my group because there is safety in numbers. And with how out of shape I am, being able to draft somebody so you don’t tire as easily is a must! But I love how meditative and freeing it can be to go on your own. There’s something very theraputic about being able to work through your own doubts. 

Perfect Day

It was a gorgeous day here in South Florida today.  It was in the 70’s midday, which is perfect, the skies were a gorgeous shade of blue – the kind of blue that only happens in autumn and winter here.  I was able to go to a few of my favorite spots, since I went in the afternoon and most of the world was working, the traffic was down to a minimum.

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One of the perks of riding alone is you get to say when you’re going to stop for a break and where.  I decided, since I was in the area, to stop at the best lemonade stand in the whole wide world.  AC’s Icees is a Miami landmark  and it really is the most refreshing thing to get when you’re working out. Or when it’s just hot out. And in Miami, this is about 95% of the time.

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Never Time for Me

I really do not take a lot of me time, and when I do it usually involves taking a bath alone. It’s easier for Silly Baby and I to take a shower together so I’m hardly ever alone in the shower anymore.  Now that Silly Baby is older, I plan on changing this.  

I do need to get on my bike more because I really don’t feel comfortable in my body. As easy as it would be for me to jog with him, I can’t because my knees are in really bad shape.  I walk with him a lot, but that doesn’t feel like exercise to me.  It just feels like something I should be doing anyway.  I haven’t even gone to get my hair cut since he was born because that requires too much planning.  Truthfully though, as much as I would love some me time, the moment I am not with him I feel empty.  It feels strange to look in my rearview and not see him in his carseat. I love having my son around because he really is the world to me.

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Do you take any regular “me time”?  What do you do and how do you deal with missing your child(ren)? Let me know in the comments below.[/et_pb_cta][et_pb_image src=”https://sillybabiesblog.com/wp-content/uploads/2019/03/pin_this.png” _builder_version=”3.21.1″ animation_style=”bounce”][/et_pb_image][/et_pb_column][/et_pb_row][et_pb_row _builder_version=”3.21.1″][et_pb_column type=”1_5″ _builder_version=”3.21.1″][/et_pb_column][et_pb_column type=”3_5″ _builder_version=”3.21.1″][et_pb_image src=”https://sillybabiesblog.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/11/Mommys-Day-Out.jpg” alt=”Me Time” _builder_version=”3.21.1″][/et_pb_image][/et_pb_column][et_pb_column type=”1_5″ _builder_version=”3.21.1″][/et_pb_column][/et_pb_row][/et_pb_section]

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